- Selena Gomez was “insane” when first dating Benny Blanco
- The pair were professional collaborators before they got together
- They got engaged late last year after a year of being together

Selena Gomez took punctuality very seriously when she first started dating Benny Blanco.
The 37-year-old music producer spilt the tea on the early days of their relationship while appearing on the Table Manners. He was joined by his now-fiancée on the podcast.
Speaking to pop star Jessie Ware and her mother Lennie, Blanco said, “Selena’s so insane that when we first started going out on dates, she was so obsessed with being on time.”
Benny Blanco reveals Selena Gomez was extremely desperate for him and used to wait outside his house for 30 minutes:
— Selena Gomez Charts (@selenagchart) April 30, 2025
“Selena’s so insane, when we first started going out on dates, she used to pull up to my house, minimum 20 mins, maybe 30 mins early, and she would wait outside.” pic.twitter.com/whlv89aMhJ
Blanco went into detail about how her obsession with being punctual manifested to the pair.
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“She used to pull up to my house, minimum 20 minutes early, maybe 30 minutes early, and she would wait outside,” he continued.
However, the singer, who recently released the album I Said I Loved You First with, revealed that the Only Murders In The Building star had no clue that security cameras were looking at the whole time.
“But she didn’t realise that my cameras could see down the street, and her car would just be parked outside for like 30 minutes, and she would just wait until it was time to come in.”
“But Selena didn’t realise that my cameras could see down the street, and her car would just be parked outside for like 30 minutes, and she would just wait until it was time to come in.” — Benny said in a new podcast. pic.twitter.com/ilmFXDtW2Z
— Selena Gomez Charts (@selenagchart) April 30, 2025
What did Selena Gomez say on Table Manners?
Gomez gave her side on the issue, explaining why on earth she rocked up so early to Blanco’s house.

“It’s just, I don’t know, I was nervous that I really liked him and I wanted to get there and, like, maybe call a friend to pump me up or do my make-up again or something,” she said.